3 things which inhibit the development of personal growth or rather reflections that inhibit human development in all spheres of life.
Personal Growth Inhibitor # 1: Procrastination
Don't you think we think too much? We are constantly weighing and thinking "what if", "what if", "and here." Instead of doing. Instead of stepping in the right direction, we calculate, predict and foresee everything.
Meanwhile, all we have to do is go as far as we can see, and when we get there, we can see further.
Far-reaching plans are unnecessary disappointed expectations. All the same, everything will be different than we planned. Why not put your fears aside and trust in life? Life always knows the simplest and shortest way to achieve our goal
Then it just boils down to:
1. Set a destination - formulate a clear goal
2. Trust in life - give yourself a mindset that everything is going as it should
3. Start to act, catching the signs that life sends us
Growth Inhibitor # 2: Accusation
The habit of blaming anything for your failures, just not yourself, is another obstacle to personal growth. People who have not taken place in life always have a list of reasons why they are where they are. It is much easier for them to look for the cause of their problems in the outside world than inside themselves.
The truth is that we are where we are only because we want to be there.
Nothing can make us feel sick, poor, or unhappy without our consent. I guess resentment, disappointment and self-pity are not at all what you need from life.
The path to personal freedom lies through responsibility, which is why so many people are afraid of it. Stopping blaming your unhappiness means taking full responsibility for what is happening in your life.
This changes everything dramatically. You stop being a victim of circumstances, but become the steering, the master of your life, which inevitably leads to the growth of consciousness and internal energy. Fears about the future leave you because you yourself begin to create your future. And you don't have to make excuses anymore
Personal Growth Inhibitor # 3: Justification
When we make excuses, it suggests that we feel guilty about something. Justification is inextricably linked with blame and is the third brake on our personal growth. When you do the best you can, you have nothing to make excuses for
If you still think that you were born at the wrong time and in the wrong place, then it's time to start looking not for reasons, but for opportunities. Nothing changes until you change yourself
An inexhaustible source of opportunity is hidden in each of us, but false beliefs and fear of change make many forget about it. There is a fulcrum within you that will help you become who you want to be.
Once you become aware of the power within, you no longer want to make excuses. You will simply know that you are able to change everything and get what you deserve. And let your main question be not "What can I do about this?", But "How can I do this?"
Waking up every day - go forward, to your dreams and goals, never stopping ...