Conversation with the groom - useful information for peasants

A conversation with the groom is useful information for peasants not to get caught out of the blue)

- Here, I made an offer to her, I will marry!

- What for?

- What why"? Marry? Love is with us!

- What does LOVE have to do with the registration of marriage by state authorities in accordance with our anti-male legislation? Who forbids you to love?

- Well ... she insisted ...

- Do you agree to satisfy all women’s wishes? What about your OWN desires and interests?

- Well, how ... uh-uh, I want children.

- Children do not appear at all from a trip to the registry office.

- Uh, well, that's how it should be!

- By whom?

- ... .. uh-uh.

- Well, what do you get by entering into an official marriage?

- Well ... like ... a wife.

- You're wrong. According to the current legislation, your wife is not only not obliged to keep loyalty to you, but also is not obliged to live with you. I don't even have to have sex with you. So what do you get?

- Well ... family.

- What kind of "family" is this?

- Uh, normal, patriarchal.

- What kind of patriarchy are we talking about if the husband in such a "family" has no rights at all and no rights in relation to offspring?

- Which rights?

- None. You cannot force a wife to become pregnant and give birth, you cannot forbid her to have an abortion if she wants to have it. All reproductive decisions in Russia are made by women alone. You have no protection of your own property interests. You have no right to your own children. You do not even have the right to have regular sex or defend your honor in case of female infidelity or pregnancy, not from you.

- How is this "pregnancy is not from me"? How dare she ?!

- Easily. Up to 30% of official fathers in Russia raise, without knowing it, other people's children. Of course, no one will publish the exact data, otherwise you yourself understand what will begin.

- She talks about the guarantee of a long-term relationship!

- Whose guarantees? Her? WHAT DO YOU GET GUARANTEE? And what kind of "long-term" relationship are you talking about if 4 out of 5 marriages break up in the first 5 years of married life.

- I didn't know ... but she loves me. He says he loves!

- Will she love you less without a stamp in her passport? Why does a woman who really love you need a registry office? Do you know that it is wives who initiate 75-80% of divorces?

“N-no, I didn't ... I didn't know. But she needs, as she says, confidence. You see, we were just planning to get married, then sell my kopeck piece, enter into a mortgage and buy a three-ruble note.

- It is impossible to think of more stupid.

- But why?!

- After you buy a "three-ruble note" in marriage, it, like everything you acquire, will be considered "jointly acquired" property and will be divided in half in case of divorce.

- But the "kopeck piece" was given to me by my parents, 90% of the cost of the future "three-ruble note" is money from the sale of my apartment, and only I will work!

- Babasuds in Russia are not interested in this: was the three-ruble note purchased in marriage? Hence, in half. Moreover, the Supreme Court has created a precedent according to which a judge can deviate even from the ratio "50 to 50", of course, "in the interests of children."

- I'm shocked! But what if I conclude a marriage contract?

- Marriage has absolutely no power in Russia, it can easily be declared null and void if, in the judge's opinion, it will "greatly violate the interests of one of the parties." So why are you getting married?

- So that ... the children have all the rights. To have an official father.

- Typical legal illiteracy: the rights of children, your official paternity, the inheritance law of children IN ANY WAY does not depend on whether the marriage was concluded or not.

- But she told me ... And my father's rights?

- In Russia, fathers de facto have no rights. In the event of a divorce (and there are 60-83% of them), 98% of children are automatically left with their mothers, 70% of ex-wives with impunity prevent children from communicating with their fathers.

- I'll take it to court.

- The court will award you 1 hour of communication with the child per week, and the ex-wife will take him to another city to his parents or simply will not open the door. Your actions?

- Yes ... I ... I will stop paying alimony!

- They will be automatically deducted from the official salary in the accounting department. If you run, they will describe your property or even go to jail. And to make you faster, since 2008 the penalties for late alimony have been increased 5 times. Yes, if you are going to sell a car or an apartment, do not forget to pay alimony from this.

- Incredible!

- Fact. Alimony lawlessness is constantly and methodically intensified.

- But I can at least make sure that all the alimony will go to the child?

- Not. In Russia, a woman's spending of alimony is still completely uncontrollable.

- And that she spends the same amount on a child, can I at least be sure of this?

- The law does not provide for such a possibility.

- Well ... what if the child stays with me?

- Unlikely. It's easier to win the lottery: 124 thousand lawsuits about the place of residence of a child are processed in Russia every year, but still 98% of children are almost automatically left with their mothers.

- I ... I didn't know all this. But ... what should I do?

- Think, buddy, think. Male brains, not female interests ...