The world has changed, and if you truly love your daughter, you will surely agree with many of the things below:
YOU CAN BECOME ANYWHERE
Yes, some professions are still considered exclusively male. But you don't have to go to hairdressers or accountants. If you really want to, you can become anyone and drive trucks, control a tower crane or an airplane. You can do any sport after all.
... AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE PERFECT AT ALL AT ONCE
You don't need to chase in several directions at once: have seven children, look like a model and make a career at the same time. Even the inability to cook is not a shame. You do not have the right to be able to do everything.
DON'T BELIEVE SOCIAL MEDIA
Everyone demonstrates exceptional success every day at this online vanity fair. In fact, life is much more complex and richer. Your inconsistency with today's ideas about the ideal does not matter at all. Look at the photos from the late 80s. Would you like to look like this now? And the girls of that time went out of their way for this. On a life scale, this does not matter.
FABULOUS RELATIONSHIP - THEY ARE IN CARTOONS
“They lived happily ever after” is a myth, so don't wait for a prince, they don't exist. Live your mind, learn to build relationships with real people.
GIRLS ARE NO WORSE IN MATH than GUYS
But the prejudice is very strong. Studies have shown that girls who were reminded of their gender before a math test performed worse than girls who were not told.
DON'T GET INTO THE ADAPTERS
Do not discuss other girlfriends' failures with your friends, do not criticize the appearance or actions of other girls. Don't be friends against someone, it's just not worth it.
YOUR BODY OWNS YOU
Yes, both you and your peers are all feeling social pressure - it's time, it's time! Is it a shame to be a virgin? Nonsense. Only you decide when and with whom you have sex. Whether you say yes or no is only your decision.
YOU CAN HAVE CHILDREN IF YOU WANT
Whatever they say about "the clock is ticking", this is only your life and you have plenty of time to decide on the time for the birth of a child.
BUT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO
Yes, it's just your life and your body. If you seriously decide not to have children, you also have the right to do so. There is no “giving birth for health”, this is a myth.